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casca🎀's avatar

Beautiful essay. I'm currently trying to figure out my own feelings towards the pursuit of beauty and want to understand which parts of it I'm engaging with out of genuine interest because it makes me feel happy and fulfilled. I'm trying to separate my self worth from this attachment to needing to be seen as pretty and therefore allowed to take up space. There's this fear that if I'm not presenting at my "best" then my opinion is not valid because i can't do a simple act of appearing put together and done up. It's interesting to learn that I'm not alone in this discomfort and there are bigger things at play. Thank you for this reminder to consume mindfully and not just follow trends and the direction they're leading us to🤍.

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Kiersten Taté's avatar

loved this piece! i noticed that the nazi regime encouraged women to be mothers and made it sound less restricting by arguing women would be in charge of raising the next leaders. and your piece has me thinking about the parallel between the nazi’s banning jazz (and other black art) and some famous black women/influencers switching from the baddie life (which has some ties to blackness) to being “more feminine”

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